Speed Dating for Seniors: A Fun and Meaningful Way to Connect
January 21, 2025
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As people age, finding new social connections and opportunities for companionship can become more challenging. For many older adults, the prospect of meeting new people or even entering the dating world after a long break can seem daunting. That's why we are happy to share an exciting event hosted by SSP that offers a safe, exciting, and low-pressure way for older adults to meet others. Speed Connections returns on Friday, February 7th from 2-4pm in the School House Grill! This will be SSP's third time hosting the event, and each previous one has seen a great turnout!
How Does Speed Connections Work?
Inspired by the concept of speed dating, Speed Connections is an informal and relaxed event designed to foster new friendships and, for some, even potential romantic connections. Participants rotate around the room at timed intervals, having short conversations with others, which helps break the ice and provide an opportunity to connect with multiple people in one session. There is no guarantee that participants get to speak with everyone at the event depending on the number of participants and time constraints. But, don't worry! A mingle period is built in following the event to allow individuals more time to talk or meet those they did not speak with.
Safety Precautions
We want everyone to feel comfortable, safe, and at ease during this event. That's why participants are discouraged from exchanging personal information such as phone numbers or email. At the end of the event, we pass out contact forms for each person to fill out which allow them to indicate who they would like to connect with post-event. Individuals should feel no obligation to list anyone on the form if they do not wish. Contact information will only be shred if both parties have mutual interest. These contact cards are then turned into SSP staff, and the information is distributed by the staff person following the event.
Tips for Speed Dating
If you're considering giving Speed Connections a try, here are some tips to help make the most of your experience!
1. Be open-minded and respectful
Try to remain open-minded during the event. You may find someone you didn't initially think would be a match surprises you with common interests or a similar personality.
2. Prepare some conversation starters
If you feel nervous, prepare a few easy conversation starters before the event. Hobbies, recent vacations, or favorite books and movies are a great way to get the conversation going. We will also provide a broad list of questions to be used during the event if needed.
3. Respect the time limits
Since this is a timed event and intervals are short, please be mindful of the time periods allotted. If you're having a great conversation, try not to overstay your time, as this gives everyone an equal chance to meet each other and keeps the event flowing smoothly. There is a mingle period built in after the event if you would like to continue a conversation with someone you hit it off with.
Speed Connections offers a unique and fun way for participants to meet peers in their own community who are also seeking companionship and new connections. Whether you're looking for new friendships, someone to share a hobby with, or even a romantic partner, this is a fantastic way to meet others and expand your social circle.
Tickets are $10 and can be purchased at the event, in-person at our front desk, or online by visiting 
seniorservicesplus.org/speed-connections or clicking the button below.
